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BOOBS, BURLESQUE, AND A BLOG!  Visit this space often for crafty ideas, sexy insights and burlesque tips. Let me shimmy my way into your curiosity about all things tease, sparkly and sexy-positive.

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Sex Club Bestie Experience – NEW!

You don’t have to explore sex clubs alone. Going to a sex club can be intimidating and exciting. I was lucky having… Read Post

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Intro to Pee Play – NEW!

(Watersports/Golden Showers) Some of us enjoy sex with more fluids involved! Urophilia is sexual excitement from the sight, sound, taste or smell… Read Post

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Peg the Patriarchy

My Peg The Patriarchy t-shirt makes a gorgeous orgy out of all the other parts of me: sex educator, burlesque swooner and… Read Post

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Sex Clubs for Singles – NEW!

Sex clubs, sex parties and swingers events can be intimidating and exciting – especially if you’re going as a single. Are you… Read Post

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Private Workshops

Let’s get together! I think sex education should be playful, shame free and pleasure-focused. Most of us didn’t grow up with access… Read Post

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Make Your Own Nipple Pasties Workshop

Nipple hats, pasties, tassels – these gorgeous creations give us the opportunity to decorate our naked selves. Pasties are glamorous and glittery… Read Post

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Strap-on Sexcessories

If you’re already balls deep (total pun intended) in strap-on play and you’re on the prowl for some strap-on spice, you might… Read Post

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5 Questions to Ask a Potential Dominant or Submissive

So you’re on the prowl for a delicious Dominant or a sexy submissive. Maybe you’re receiving messages from submissives or Dominants looking… Read Post

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Strap-on Fundamentals Workshop

Curious about strapping it on for your partner? Strap-on play can be an incredible experience for both the top and the bottom…. Read Post

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Fuck Like a Goddess Panties

Holy mother of mangoes, I love these panties. I squirted out the idea for these panties while preparing content for my new Non-sexual… Read Post

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How to Have a Threesome – NEW!

Have you fantasized about a threesome? Unsure about how to approach a couple or a single for group sex? Where Want tips… Read Post

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Tassles & Tea – Pasties Crafternoon – NEW!

Pasties Workshop – Tassles and Tea Interested in a crafternoon of breast positivity and sassy pasties? I’ll guide your fancy creativity for… Read Post

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Get Your Groove Back – Sexin’ It Post-Marriage – NEW!

Are you a newly-single woman? Curious about the dating world? Nervous about exploring your sexuality post-relationship? Get tips for navigating the online… Read Post

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Introduction to Non-Sexual Submission and Dominance

Submission and domination are stops along the way to sex, right? Not necessarily. Explore the exciting pleasures of the non-sexual dominant and submissive. Discover the eroticism, sensuality and connection possible through fetishes with non-sexual desires. Learn how to make your non-sexual submission and domination desires a reality, find out where to connect with like-minded people and get creative with your non-sexual power exchange.

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The Breast Pleasure Workshop

Mainstream porn doesn’t do breasts justice as the important erogenous zones they are. Join this workshop to expand your breast pleasure options,… Read Post

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Intro to Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

There’s a delicious line between pleasure and pain. As extreme as cock and ball torture (CBT) may sound, the spectrum of pleasure for the penis and testicles is diverse and full of fun. The pleasure for the giver of CBT can also be a delicious dimension of sexuality to explore.

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Workshop: How to Swing With Unicorns

Are you a couple looking to have a threesome with a single woman (a Unicorn)? Unicorn Night at Oasis Aqualounge welcomes couples… Read Post

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5 Ways To Snag A Unicorn for Your Threesome

Unicorn: A single woman interested in sex with couples. Are you a couple thinking about having a threesome with a Unicorn (a… Read Post

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3 Awkward Threesome Moments (and how to deal)

So you’re gonna have a threesome… WOOHOO! More bodies means more fun right? Totally. It can also mean more expectations, more emotions… Read Post

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Seducing the Anus

Everything butt penetration. Anal sex can be intimidating and amazing all at the same time. There’s so much more to anal joy… Read Post

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Sex Toy Joy

Are you curious about how to add toys into your sexy time? Perhaps you’ve been eyeing a costly vibrator or a fancy… Read Post

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Top 5 Myths About Group Sex

Threesomes, orgies and gangbangs…oh my! Group sex can be an incredible way to try something new with your partner, to explore your… Read Post

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3 Things I learned About Garter Belts

Do you like garter belts? Are you unsure how to choose the right one for your body? Read more to find out about my new favourite addition to my lingerie and costume drawer – my ruffled garter belt.

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Bring Burlesque to Your Bedroom Tonight

You adore the glitter, sexiness and empowerment of burlesque. You want to bring the art of tease into your sex life. But you’re not sure how and you’re worried you may feel silly. Replace ‘silly’ with ‘sexy’ and read on to find out the ‘how’.

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3 Tips for Choosing Thigh Highs

Thigh highs or stay ups are both a visually delicious treat for the hosiery-minded and a very seductive item to peel during a burlesque act. Learn how to choose the right pair for your stage or bedroom seduction.

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Tease makes the world go round.

Why do we enjoy tease so much? How do you tease? How do you like to be teased? Tease me with your thoughts…

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Curvy and Thick Girl Lingerie – NEW!

Are you sexy thick and curvy? BBW? Voluptuous? Plus-sized? Celebrate your sexiness with corsets, lingerie, thigh highs and garters that make you… Read Post

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Safer is Sexier…

Here are some online and offline resources to keep you safer while playing in groups or with multiple partners.

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Hooray for less laundry! Waterproof blankets.

Wetness is a great thing, but more laundry – not so much. Read on about my new favourite purchase that saves me laundry and manages to be a sexy velvety companion at the same time.

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Maya Angelou Sparkles the Truth

This famous quote is from Maya Angelou’s poem Still I Rise. Maya Angelou felt sexy and powerful despite the racism and misogyny of her time. I have always been comfortable with my sexuality, but struggled to ‘own my sexiness’. Burlesque has opened up a new way of looking at body image, femininity and sexy.

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Workshop: Swing Well with Others – Swingers’ Etiquette

Thinking of swinging with your partner? Curious about how to meet and play with other sexy couples? Learn to navigate pleasure, safety and fun while swinging. All genders and experience levels are welcome. Register soon!

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3 Step Fancy Flower Fascinator

So you want to make a fancy thingamajiggy for your head? I’m going to give you a mighty craft-on with this simple and glamorous project. Read on to learn how to make a $3 fabulous fascinator.

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Workshop: Group Sex 101

Are you curious about threesomes? Foursomes? Moresomes? Orgies? This sex workshop is your handy guide to learning about group sex – everything from how to find it, how to negotiate with partners and where to do it. More bodies can mean more emotions, different dynamics and a diversity of spaces.

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Learn Something Sexy This Summer

Summer 2017 Workshops Summer (and consent) is schexxxxxyyy. How about polishing up your sexy skills? Come to a workshop, explore sensuality, learn… Read Post

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4 Things That Confused Me About Online Dating

So. Confused. I was married monogamously for 10 years. After my separation I began to explore, during what I call my year… Read Post

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Masturbation Workshop at Oasis Aqualounge

I’m pumped to be teaching at Sex School at Oasis Aqualounge! “May is National Masturbation Month and we are kicking this observance off… Read Post

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Friends of Luna

My world of sexual adventure, curiosity and exploration would not be complete without buddies. Here’s a list of my fav likeminded and… Read Post

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Appearances

Missed Luna? You can check out what you sexy tips you missed out on: Vice visited Luna Matatas at an Intro to… Read Post

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