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BOOBS, BURLESQUE, AND A BLOG!  Visit this space often for crafty ideas, sexy insights and burlesque tips. Let me shimmy my way into your curiosity about all things tease, sparkly and sexy-positive.

Workshop: Group Sex 101

Are you curious about threesomes? Foursomes? Moresomes? Orgies? This sex workshop is your handy guide to learning about group sex – everything from how to find it, how to negotiate with partners and where to do it. More bodies can mean more emotions, different dynamics and a diversity of spaces.

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3 Awkward Threesome Moments (and how to deal)

So you’re gonna have a threesome… WOOHOO! More bodies means more fun right? Totally. It can also mean more expectations, more emotions… Read Post

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Pleasure On Your Period

Period sex! I’ll be honest, I’ve never fully embraced a menstrual appreciation each month. I’m often in pain, emotionally unsettled and constantly… Read Post

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Sex Club Bestie Experience – NEW!

You don’t have to explore sex clubs alone. Going to a sex club can be intimidating and exciting. I was lucky having… Read Post

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Fuck Like a Goddess Panties

Holy mother of mangoes, I love these panties. I squirted out the idea for these panties while preparing content for my new Non-sexual… Read Post

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4 Things That Confused Me About Online Dating

So. Confused. I was married monogamously for 10 years. After my separation I began to explore, during what I call my year… Read Post

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Peg the Patriarchy

My Peg The Patriarchy t-shirt makes a gorgeous orgy out of all the other parts of me: sex educator, burlesque swooner and… Read Post

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Let’s get together! I think sex education should be playful, shame free and pleasure-focused. Most of us didn’t grow up with access… Read Post

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Strap-on Sexcessories

If you’re already balls deep (total pun intended) in strap-on play and you’re on the prowl for some strap-on spice, you might… Read Post

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5 Questions to Ask a Potential Dominant or Submissive

So you’re on the prowl for a delicious Dominant or a sexy submissive. Maybe you’re receiving messages from submissives or Dominants looking… Read Post

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5 Ways To Snag A Unicorn for Your Threesome

Unicorn: A single woman interested in sex with couples. Are you a couple thinking about having a threesome with a Unicorn (a… Read Post

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Top 5 Myths About Group Sex

Threesomes, orgies and gangbangs…oh my! Group sex can be an incredible way to try something new with your partner, to explore your… Read Post

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3 Things I learned About Garter Belts

Do you like garter belts? Are you unsure how to choose the right one for your body? Read more to find out about my new favourite addition to my lingerie and costume drawer – my ruffled garter belt.

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Bring Burlesque to Your Bedroom Tonight

You adore the glitter, sexiness and empowerment of burlesque. You want to bring the art of tease into your sex life. But you’re not sure how and you’re worried you may feel silly. Replace ‘silly’ with ‘sexy’ and read on to find out the ‘how’.

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3 Tips for Choosing Thigh Highs

Thigh highs or stay ups are both a visually delicious treat for the hosiery-minded and a very seductive item to peel during a burlesque act. Learn how to choose the right pair for your stage or bedroom seduction.

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Tease makes the world go round.

Why do we enjoy tease so much? How do you tease? How do you like to be teased? Tease me with your thoughts…

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Curvy and Thick Girl Lingerie – NEW!

Are you sexy thick and curvy? BBW? Voluptuous? Plus-sized? Celebrate your sexiness with corsets, lingerie, thigh highs and garters that make you… Read Post

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Safer is Sexier…

Here are some online and offline resources to keep you safer while playing in groups or with multiple partners.

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Hooray for less laundry! Waterproof blankets.

Wetness is a great thing, but more laundry – not so much. Read on about my new favourite purchase that saves me laundry and manages to be a sexy velvety companion at the same time.

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Maya Angelou Sparkles the Truth

This famous quote is from Maya Angelou’s poem Still I Rise. Maya Angelou felt sexy and powerful despite the racism and misogyny of her time. I have always been comfortable with my sexuality, but struggled to ‘own my sexiness’. Burlesque has opened up a new way of looking at body image, femininity and sexy.

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3 Step Fancy Flower Fascinator

So you want to make a fancy thingamajiggy for your head? I’m going to give you a mighty craft-on with this simple and glamorous project. Read on to learn how to make a $3 fabulous fascinator.

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Be a Fabulous Femdom – NEW!

Want to explore being a femdom with curiosity, confidence and playfulness? This workshop is for anyone interested in learning techniques and skills… Read Post

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Luna’s Buttstravaganza!

Buttstravaganza! I had a bumtastic birthday celebration teaching seducing the butt skills, playing ass trivia and giving away fun butt stuff!  … Read Post

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10 Things Couples Do That Make Me Want to F*ck Them.

Unicorn shares exclusive secrets from the herd. Unicorns are typically single women who desire sexual experiences with couples. They are called Unicorns… Read Post

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Dirty Talk

This workshop will explore creating fantasies with words, compliments and communication and help you to develop playful confidence with dirty talk.

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Intro to Cock and Ball Torture (CBT)

There’s a delicious line between pleasure and pain. As extreme as cock and ball torture (CBT) may sound, the spectrum of pleasure for the penis and testicles is diverse and full of fun. The pleasure for the giver of CBT can also be a delicious dimension of sexuality to explore.

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