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How to Have a Threesome – NEW!

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Have you fantasized about a threesome? Unsure about how to approach a couple or a single for group sex? Where Want tips for talking to your partner about this sexy fantasy? Group Sex Goddess Luna Matatas will provide you with practical tools to explore a sexy landscape of more than two bodies.

We’ll cover topics like:

  • From fantasy to reality – communication skills
  • Threesome etiquette and ‘couples privilege’
  • How to find a Unicorn
  • Where to look for unicorns
  • Do I have to be bisexual to have a threesome?
  • Getting it started and keeping it going
  • Avoiding awkwardness
  • Sex clubs and house parties
  • Managing physical and emotional risks (e.g. jealous, insecurity, fear)

This workshop welcomes inexperienced and experienced singles and couples of all genders to explore the ways to maximize pleasure in your threesome experiences.

If you’re a single, also check out Sex Clubs for Singles Workshop.

Interested in other kinds of group sex, like swinging, orgies, gangbangs and bukkake? Check out my Group Sex 101 Workshop too.


When is this workshop being offered next?

In Toronto

Date/time: Wednesday, April 5, 2017, 7:00 p.m – 9:30 p.m.

Location: Good for Her, 175 Harbord Street, Toronto

Presenter: Luna Matatas

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Private Workshops

Can’t make it? Hang out with me! I can coach you through your specific threesome goals and take you through the workshop content tailored to your specific goals as a couple or small group. I’m also happy to teach a playful, pleasure-focused and shame-free workshop for swingers or group sex parties.

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Sex Club Bestie Experience

*women (trans women included), genderqueer and gender non-binary ONLY

Going to a sex club can be an intimidating and exciting experience. I was lucky having my bestie during my first few visits to sex clubs. We figured out what to wear together, acted as an emotional safety anchor throughout the night and shared stories of rejection and successes.

If you’re new to the sex club scene and are curious about going but haven’t yet dipped your toes in, contact me about a Sex Club Bestie Visit. I’ll accompany you to an event at a sex club, we’ll prep together and I’ll be your home base for a couple hours of the evening while you stretch your new wings in the wonderful world of sex clubs! This is a non-sexual service, think of it as a sex club doula – I’ll be there to support you in this exciting, sexy adventure.

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Comments

Yulia Commented On November 28, 2016 at 3:28am

Are you organizing “How to Have a Threesome” workshop anytime soon? We are very interested to attend. Thanks in advance.


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    luna Commented On December 1, 2016 at 11:40pm

    Hi! Thanks for writing, the next workshop is February 3, 2017, I can share a link with you when registration is open – it’s often a popular class. Glad you reached out, I love helping couples make their threesome dreams come true! 😊 I do Skype consultations with couples to build your skills in communication, negotiation and how to not only find unicorns, but how to be the kind of couple that unicorns love to play with. If you’re interested and don’t want to wait until February, send me an email and I’ll provide you some one on one workshop options with me!


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Danielle Commented On December 2, 2016 at 1:20am

This was a great workshop. Luna is a very down to earth & dynamic speaker who takes the awkwardness out of talking about the awkwardness of starting a threesome. It was comforting to know that everyone gets nervous & I really appreciated her advice on “other people’s pleasure” & “taking a little break”. I took her advice home to my spouse & we finally had our first threesome. Thanks Luna!


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    luna Commented On December 2, 2016 at 5:52am

    Danielle! Thank you for such a lovely review – you were awesome, honest and it was such a great group. I’m so glad to help with de-awkwardizing threesomes 😉 Have lots of fun!


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Joanne Commented On January 15, 2017 at 2:27pm

Hi Luna,
I have been with my partner for 5 years now and I personaly have offered up the idea of a threesome and he has agreed many times over and over again when we foreplay. (He has been one in his prior relationship not me ever ) however I ain’t gonna lie as much as much for it I do have insecurity and am jelouse and that’s the only thing holding with back but I truly want it bc I have a Intrest and it turns me On HUGE AND IT’S A FANTASY… ..I decided to try overcoming this by by being open with my partner and we are..we discuss alot about what we LIKE AND WANT and how I feel and my insecurity and he reassures me… and now Im Googling and doing my research and found this LINK. I hope you can help guide us to Safe 3sum ect…


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    luna Commented On January 30, 2017 at 11:41pm

    Hi Joanne! Would love to help you out. I really enjoy helping couples make their threesome fantasy come true. How do you have a threesome? How do you find a unicorn? How do you navigate jealousy and insecurity? I’m going to help you with tips, communication strategies and sexy getting it started activities. Send me an email and lets chat 🙂


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Robert Commented On February 20, 2017 at 5:39pm

My partner and I are looking for a workshop in my area ( Puerto Rico ) but find that strapon pegging is a big taboo. Would you have a listing of any I’m our area?


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    luna Commented On February 20, 2017 at 9:50pm

    Hi! That is very exciting that you want to explore pegging. And the taboo is very real, you’re right, so it can make it hard to get answers to the questions you need to know about. I offer one-on-one Skype sessions for couples interested in strap on play and pegging. The content of the workshop would be customized to your specific questions and concerns, but to get a sense here’s what I cover: http://lunamatatas.com/strap-on-play/
    Email me to discuss cost and set up a time. 🙂


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