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Introduction to Non-Sexual Submission and Dominance


Submission and domination are stops along the way to sex, right? Not necessarily. Explore the exciting pleasures of the non-sexual dominant and submissive. Discover the eroticism, sensuality and connection possible through fetishes with non-sexual desires. Learn how to make your non-sexual submission and domination desires a reality, find out where to connect with like-minded people and get creative with your non-sexual power exchange.

I’ll cover topics such as:

  • What is non-sexual submission?

  • What do submissives/dominants get out of non-sexual play?

  • What is humiliation and degradation and why can it be pleasureable?

  • What expressions of non-sexual submissives are there? (e.g. sissies, slaves, pigs, maids, feminization)

  • Negotiating boundaries, buzz kills and limits and pro-actively understanding consent

  • Finding your brand of dominant– exploring the mind of a femme Domme

  • How to communicate from the Top, how to communicate from the bottom

  • Checklist for meeting a new submissive/new dominant

When is this workshop being offered next?

Good For Her

Date/time: Thursday, April 27, 2016, 7:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m.

Location: Good For Her, 175 Harbord Street, ON

Presenter: Luna Matatas


In Montreal

Date/time: TBD

Location: Alternative Lifestyles Community Centre, Montreal

Presenter: Luna Matatas


In Ottawa

Date/time: TBD

Location: Venus Envy, 326 Bank Street, Ottawa, ON

Presenter: Luna Matatas


 Private Bookings

Interested in a private workshop for your organization or small group? Let’s do it!



Belle Commented On July 15, 2016 at 4:17pm

I attended Luna’s class this week. It was a blast. Not only fun and educational but great networking experience. Luna was an amazing host/teacher she made me feel very comfortable when sharing personal stories and it really helped to break the stigmas surrounding bdsm and kink as a whole. I walked away feeling like a true goddess and with so much more confidence.
I recommend this class to anyone with a curiosity or fantasy for this stuff. Cant wait to attend more of her workshops.
I would give five stars but I think ten pasties sounds better 😉


    luna Commented On July 29, 2016 at 4:24pm

    You are a goddess Belle! Thank you for the kind words and so glad you felt comfortable to share your stories. 🙂


FoolQueenDivine Commented On August 17, 2016 at 2:26pm

What a blast! Luna is a fun teacher, and this is also a fun topic! I really loved her lists, like breaking down the four questions to ask a new dom or sub, and her book recommendations! Her workshop is a good opportunity to meet people, too. That’s something you definitely can’t get from a book!


    luna Commented On August 18, 2016 at 6:02pm

    Thank you so much FoolQueenDivine, I love lists too 🙂 Your comments are generous and was so great to meet you 🙂


Lisa Commented On August 18, 2016 at 1:52am

Luna’s workshops are incredibly informative in her very open and honest style. Luna shares freely of herself and her experiences and relates so well to her audience you instantly want to be her friend. I was exploring D/s in a sexual arena and wanted to learn more about non sexual as an option or how to incorporate into my relationships. Luna spoke with a down to earth and practical perspective and has a wonderful sense of humour. Love seeing her in action. Thank you


    luna Commented On August 18, 2016 at 6:06pm

    Lisa! Your feedback makes me smile – I love being vulnerable with eager learners to help cushion some of the growing pains of exploring our sexy and kinky sides. You were so warm, willing and curious – was a great addition to the group. Thank you for the feedback! 🙂


Mz Claws Commented On October 5, 2016 at 4:20am

I’m so glad I made it to your workshop on non-sexual Domination …it gave me great questions to ask myself & my subs 🙂
It doesn’t discourage sexual play, but opens our minds to the power in eroticism of the mind and emotional kink.
You communicate well, ,with personal anecdotes illustrating concepts & ideas , with clear joy for for D/s play. And you encourage us to brainstorm and share our input and insights.


    luna Commented On October 5, 2016 at 4:37am

    Mz Claws- thank you for your lovely feedback and your participation. I look forward to more kinky workshops in Montreal! 🙂


Diana Commented On March 3, 2017 at 11:27am

Hi there! Are you running any of these workshops in Toronto in 2017?


    luna Commented On March 5, 2017 at 6:34pm

    Hey Diana! Thanks for asking – yes! I’m teaching Non-sexual Submission and Dominance at Good for Her store (www.goodforher.com) on April 27, 7pm to 9:30pm. It’s a really fun class, we get very creative about how to make scenes, negotiate consent in the context and discover your inner dominant or submissive flavour. 🙂


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