PORTLAND KINKFEST 2024 TIPS AND TOY GUIDES

Hello KINKFEST friends!

I've pulled together some top tips and toys from the classes I taught this weekend at Portland KinkFest to help you continue your kinky journeys.

Keep your kinky skill building going with on-demand webinars, upcoming kinky classes and tips from my kinky blog. 

STAY IN TOUCH! Instagram and Fetlife - @lunamatatas 

ON-DEMAND WEBINARS

Use code PORTLANDKF to save 50% on any one on-demand webinar. Code expires May 16, 2024. I have 30+ classes on-demand, here's a few of my favs: 



 

NEW DOM SUB DIRTY TALK GUIDE!

PEGGING AND BOOTY TIPS

 

Harnesses I love:

Thigh Harness

Rodeoh brief style harness

Strap-on me Jock/string style

Aslan Leather - pelvic style harnesses

Lube:

Pjur Silicone or UberLube 

DADDY DYNAMICS

WHO’S YOUR DADDY? Can you describe the type of Daddy you’re attracted to? What are their characteristics? For the Daddies - what vibes, flavors and intentions make you feel the most Daddy? These are examples only, and they are popular expressions of Daddy dynamics, but the possibilities are infinite. Consider subverting Daddy archetypes from society and playing with gender, power and contrasts of characteristics - like cruel and kind, or bossy and needy.


 HOMEWORK:

  • What’s your fantasy?

  • What gets you in a Daddy mood?

  • What do you want to do?

  • What do you want to feel?

  • What kind of partner inspires this fantasy?

  • What are you nervous about?

  • What skills or equipment might you need before play?

  • What aftercare are you willing to offer/need?

BE A FAB FEMDOM LEVEL 2

Questions to consider when planning your scene:

  • What is the flavour or mood of your scene?
  • What kinky activities would you like to do in this scene? BE SPECIFIC about tools and intensity.
  • Do you have the experience, anatomy knowledge and safety and risk awareness for these activities?
  • What boundaries are important to everyone? What barriers are being used?
  • How will we know the scene has begin/ended? Rituals?
  • What are the pleasure goals for each of you? (e.g. orgasms? fun? exploration? sex? sensation)
  • What is your safe system?
  • How will you know you both are having the pleasure that you want? How will you check in?
  • What aftercare do you need and are willing to provide to your your partner? How much time do you need ?

Questions to Ask Your CNC Partner

  • What kinds of consensual-non-consent scenes turn you on?
  • What characteristics of each side of the roleplay do you find sexy in CNC?
  • What experience do you have in power exchange play?
  • What gets you off about being forced/forcing?
  • What are things that you haven’t tried but you would like to?
  • What specific CNC activities, language and vibes turn you on and turn you off?

Check out my brand spanking NEW Dirty Talk Tips for Dominants and Submissives Guide. 15 pages, 50+ dirty talk ideas for power exchange. 

 

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