RECIPE FOR A SEXY STRAWBERRY SCENE
- Music that turns you on
- Underwear that turns you on
- A willing partner
- Set up the room with everything you need.
- Get in your groove, for example: by reciting a mantra about your sexy self, dancing around to sexy music, looking into your own eyes in the mirror and inviting your erotic self out.
- Invite your partner to come in, with the understand that once they enter the room, they are your pleasure prey and they will be devoured.
- Give them a thoughtful compliment and ask them if they are ready to get undressed and be blindfolded for a sensual experience.
- Undress each other or watch each other undress. Blindfold your partner and have them comfortably sitting on the bed.
- Keep your sexy lighting and music on so you can plug into that. If you’re mind wanders or you lose confidence, feel what you’ve created, notice how sexy and inviting everything is for your passion.
- Kiss their body everywhere but the go-to hotspots (genitals, nipples, butts, lips, etc). Experiment with pressure of your lips, pauses between kisses, lingering. Engage your eyes to tune into how their body changes as they get aroused, how delicious they look. Smell their crevices, skin and scent. Feel their skin with your hands as you move your kisses from spot to spot. Use your lowered voice to ask them if they want more.
- Stop all touch but continue to talk to them and tell them you’re going to feed them something sweet. Feed them a strawberry, let the taste linger in their mouth, and then taste their mouth with yours. After they have safely swallowed, put their hands on your body and whisper in their ear to tell you what they want next and whether they want to continue to be blindfolded or not.
- Hot? Add whatever variations you’d like. Use tease (pause), sensation play (contrasts) and get pleasure from giving pleasure – feel your own sexiness in directing this sexy scene!