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HOMEWORK
Explore feminine dominance that speaks to you.
1. Brainstorm dominant feminine characters (Cat woman, cleopatra, Maleficent, The devil wears prada) and archetypes (Queen, mother, lioness, warrior, goddess)
2. Pick a few and describe why these characters or archetypes would be considered 'dominant'. What makes them convey dominance? What characteristics or attributes inspire you to see them as dominant?
e.g. Xena Princess Warrior - leader, wears leather, physically strong, doesn't have to bully people to follow her she just gets their respect
e.g. Goddess - deserves worship, is supreme, likes rituals, enjoys service
Pick out the characteristics and attributes that inspire your feminine dominance
Try Building a Scene
Answer these questions for a simple scene:
- What is the role or flavor of the scene? Think about the mood or intention, what do you want to feel and what do you want your partner to feel?
- What rituals are you going to use?
- What safe system will you use?
- What are you going to do to make sure you’re turned on?
- How will you build momentum and go slow? Use sensations and layering
- What inspiration will you build on? (porn, erotica, forums, sexting, spank bank)
MORE SEXY SKILLS
ON-DEMAND WEBINARS
I have 30+ on-demand webinars you can watch anytime! Definitely check out my On-demand Kinky Skills Webinar Collection - it is packed. Here's a sample of classes:
KINKY PLEASURE COACHING
Want to work one on one with me? I offer Virtual Pleasure Coaching that focuses on discovering your kinky side, planning a scene, navigating challenges, understanding your partner's desires, communication and more.
BOOKS
My Digital Guide on How to Build BDSM Scenes:
My fav books on BDSM:
- The New Book of Topping and The New Book of Bottoming, Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
- The Heart of Dominance, Anton Fulmen
- Enough to Make You Blush - Exploring Erotic Humiliation, Princess Kali
- Ultimate Guide to Kink: BDSM, Role Play and the Erotic Edge, Tristan Taormino
- Sacred Kink - Lee Harrington
KINKY TAPAS - PORTLAND, OCT 14-16 2023
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Want to build up your femdom gear?
Here are some great starter things to dry out that allow you to play with bondage, sensation play and impact.
- Bondage Tape
- Wooden Paddle
- Body safe wax play candles
- Under the Bed Restraints system
- Leather wrist cuffs
- O ring Gag
- Flogger
- Vibrating Nipple Clamps
- Wartenberg Pinwheel
And then store them in my cute AF Sex Toy Storage bags 😍
