Here are some of my FAVE sex toys!!

It can be daunting when you're shopping online for sex toys - materials, functions, quality - all factors that are hard to tell based on descriptions only. I only recommend shops here that are sex-positive and pleasure based. And I only recommend toys that are body safe.

I don't get paid by these companies to promote these toys, but I may receive a commission from the sex shop if you choose to buy from these links. Most items come with discrete packaging and FREE shipping over a certain amount.

LUBE

Options for lubes include silicone, water-based, oil or hybrid lubes. Look for water-based lubes that are paraben and glycerin free. Silicone lube can't be used with silicone toys. It's longer lasting, which some people like and some people don't. It's great for long lasting handjobs, anal and marathon vaginal penetration. Both silicone and water-based lubes are condom compatible, but oil based lubes are not.

Sliquid Organics Natural 4oz

All of Sliquid's lubes are paraben and glycerin free.

Pjur Original Silicone Lubricant 100ml

Silicone lube can't be used with silicone toys. It's longer lasting, which some people like and some people don't. It's great for long handjobs or anal.

Sliquid Swirl Flavoured 4.2oz

Sliquid Flavoured lubes are tasty and sugar free! Flavoured lubes are fun but make sure when you choose them they are flavoured with stevia and not sugar, so you can avoid possible yeast infections or UTIs.

The Butters Palm Grease 4oz

Love this lube for vaginal, anal and penis pleasure. It's greasy and oil-based - so it can't be used with latex condoms. Be sure to put down a towel so you don't get grease stains on your sheets. It's so smooth, buttery and long lasting without feeling greasy.

MANAGING MESS

Sex blankets or throws that are waterproof - can be expensive and bulky, but are usually designed with 'sexy' in mind, Splash Blanket is an example.

NorthShore Champion XD Washable Underpads

Consider washable incontinence pads. These are the ones I like.

SMALL VIBRATORS

Small vibrators are great for travel, discrete intentions and for using on smaller parts of the body like nipples or testicles. Sometimes they aren't powerful enough for what we need, but can be a great way to amplify other pleasure, like using them on a clitoris during PIV sex or during oral sex.

We-Vibe Touch X Vibe

Unihorn Mount'n Peak Flutter Toy

Je Joue Mimi Soft

The Je Joue Mimi is waterproof and rechargeable.

G-SPOT VIBRATORS

G-spot vibrators are curved to help you easily reach the G-spot. Try using a rocking motion or shallow thrusting. Aim towards the front of the body when inserted.

We-Vibe Nova 2 Vibe

Le Wand Rechargeable Massager

Wands are not internal toys, but can give deep vibration to stimulate more of the clitoris and you can find attachments to turn them into G-spot internal vibes.

Orchid Mood G-Spot Vibe

The Orchid is my fav for budget-friendly and beginners to vibrators. Requires batteries. Its made of ABS plastic so it's firm and easy to clean. It has a long arm which can be great for getting into different positions. It's a buzzier vibration, but a stronger buzz. You can use this externally for clitoral play too.

Fun Factory Stronic G and Fun Factory Tiger G5

The Stronic G and Tiger G5 g-spot vibrators have powerful, rumbly motors and are waterproof.

G AND P-SPOT DILDOS

Blush Avant Pride P1

Fuze Flame Silicone Dildo

Fun Factory Boss Dildo

Barbie Pink Bubbles Dildo (I designed this Dildo with Freely Toys!)

DUAL STIMULATION

Dual vibrators or rabbit style vibrators stimulate internally and externally at the same time. They can be used externally only too. Look for ones with flexible arms because not everyone's clit is the same distance from their vagina. These are my fav:

We-Vibe Nova 2 Vibe

LELO Loki Wave 2 Prostate Massager

LELO Enigma Sonic Vibrator

CLITORAL VIBRATORS

Clitoral vibrators go over the clitoris but don't directly stimulate the clit. They create a vaccum around the clit and use pulses of air to stimulate the clit. Some people describe the orgasms from these as quicker with less build up.