Want a quick and dirty class on building more confidence in erotic power exchange?

This 30 min class is packed with tips for feeling more confident as a submissive or a dominant (and even some skills for switchy confidence!)

Confidence in dominance and submission is not about performing perfectly or always knowing what to do. It is about feeling grounded, understanding your needs, communicating clearly, navigating boundaries, and feeling like you belong in your erotic experiences.

In this class, sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas explores what sexual confidence can look like for dominants, submissives, and switches. You will examine common reasons people lose confidence, including self-judgment, anxiety, pressure to perform, disconnection, and feeling unsure about specific skills or techniques.

You will also learn practical ways to reconnect with yourself and your partner. The class covers communication, affirmations, rituals, roleplay, scene planning, verbal and non-verbal cues, aftercare, reassurance, and other tools that can help you feel safer, more creative, and more present during consensual D/s experiences.

What You Will Learn

• What sexual confidence means within dominance and submission
• Why confidence can change during a scene
• How to communicate when you feel nervous or disconnected
• Ways to slow down, take a break, and ask for reassurance
• Confidence-building tools for dominants, submissives, and switches
• How rituals, affirmations, roleplay, and aftercare can support you
• How to create a scene that supports your confidence

Who This Class Is For

This class is for adults exploring consensual dominance and submission who want to feel more confident, connected, and comfortable in their role. It is suitable for dominants, submissives, switches, partners, and individual learners.

You will finish the class with reflection questions, practical tools, and a homework activity that invites you to build a scene designed to support your confidence.

Confidence is not a destination. It is a feeling you can learn to recognize, support, and rebuild.