Ten Tips For First Time Vulva-on-Vulva Sex

Having a vulva* doesn’t automatically mean you know how to pleasure someone else's vulva. A first time vulva-on-vulva sex experience might feel ex...

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How do you feel about your belly?

Is your belly blocking your joy? How do you feel about your belly? About other people's bellies? It's been wild to watch the range of plus size clo...

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Reclaim Your Gaze - Sexy Selfie Photo Shoot

Get back your gaze by looking at yourself with adoration. How many times have you thought that your appearance was a barrier to your attractiveness...

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What Beauty Standards Need to Go?

I'm fed up with conventional beauty standards, are you?   Conventional attractiveness or beauty standards are basically what you see as the leadin...

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luna leaning against a wall with the words when seduction doesnt lead to sex on her right hand side

Does seducing your partner always have to lead to having sex with them? Seduction is about teasing - it's the art of wielding desire to entice some...

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How To Talk About Your Fantasies

Fantasies can also be intimidating and can be our contact with our personal darkness and vulnerability. Are they a manifestation of innate deviancy...

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Why Sex is a Skill

SEX IS A SKILL. If you’re like me, cooking can mean frying two eggs and warming toast. If you’re also like me, maybe you’ve got a digital collectio...

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Just a Tip: More Confidence, More Pleasure

Confidence is a skill and requires both practice and unlearning the lessons of sexual shame, performance anxiety and body insecurity we’ve all been...

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Pleasure On Your Period

Period sex! Having sex on your period or with someone else on their period is a personal choice - however, there's a lot of shame and myths around ...

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